Here is the group I mention in this audio: http://www.momondo.com/letsopenourworld/. What thoughts we have about other people are just that: thoughts. Is there really any substance to them? Are we actually more similar than different? I certainly have found myself embroiled in thoughts about other people that have been less than helpful. I made the mistake of believing they were “doing something to me.” But that’s not true, and it never has been.